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C’est moi

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Je dis non, maintenant. Parfois, j’oublie et je me rattrape, et il a fallu que j’apprenne à le dire sans m’étouffer, devenir toute rouge (ça, ça arrive encore, mais j’assume), ou transformer mon “non » en un petit “oui » en une seconde.

Sur les photoshoots, il faut beaucoup dire non. Non au make up artist qui veut nous faire un visage qui ne nous plaît pas. Non au coiffeur, non au styliste, non au photographe même, parfois.

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Expliquer : Ce genre de choses ne me vont pas. J’ai essayé un million de fois. Voici mon meilleur angle, et le plus joli maquillage pour mes yeux, et voici ce qui me ferait me sentir belle, ou intéressante, ou moi-même.

On nous dit souvent qu’il faut savoir dire non, mais moi, mon chemin pour arriver à dire non, ça a été de dire, un million de fois, oui. Regretter. Et me faire avoir à nouveau.

Mon “non” vient de l’expérience. Il a pris du temps, mais il est là.

Ce qui est marrant, quand on commence à dire non, c’est que l’on se retrouve très vite à ne même plus avoir besoin de le dire. Car du “non” naît une confiance qui met les gens à l’aise et leur donne envie de nous suivre. Soudain, tout coule.

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Avec Stephanie et Justin de Co, ainsi qu’Amanda Demme, la photographe, et son équipe, ça été un shoot de “oui”. Facile, chaleureux, minimal, en confiance. Je me suis sentie célébrée et j’ai célébré. La créativité et la générosité de chacun et l’histoire que nous étions en train de créer ensemble.

Et du coup, sur ces photos, c’est moi. Posée, calme, confiante.

Très fière de cette campagne qui, pour moi, est un symbole de la nouvelle énergie que je veux insuffler dans ma vie, celle de la confiance, de l’amitié, et de la créativité partagée.

Merci Co, Amanda Demme, et toute l’équipe !

(English)

Translated by Andrea Perdue

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  • As an average looking, 64-year-old woman, this piece speaks to something I have been grappling with recently. And that is, people who love to snap « candids » on their iPhones and then post them. The next thing I know, there is a publicly posted photo of someone who resembles me, from the side, looking down, with a grumpy expression, as her face and neck drip down into her chest. I end up crushed about this for days — I know it’s superficial and it’s my own vanity but WHY?

    Why would you snap that photo in the first place? Why would you then post it? It is not even that hard to get a decent picture of me, no matter how lousy a photographer you are. Just allow me the chance to look up and put a decent expression on my face. Young people: learn to edit, learn to ask, and learn to use the ‘delete’ button on your camera app.

    That is all. Thank you for allowing me to vent.

  • Therese 3 juillet 2019, 3:59

     » Young people: learn to edit, learn to ask, and learn to use the ‘delete’ button on your camera app. »
    Judith I love this last line. I just came back from a group vacation and was the subject of many unsolicited photos. I just accepted it as the thing to do. Now I will speak up more often.

    Yay Garance for learning to say no. The photos and you are stunning. I love the new Garance.
    I thought I was getting better until I read Judith’s comment. No is a very empowering word.

  • Totally understand that and can relate to that, because I feel the same. Why do not they ask first? I usually say « please don’t » to peaple taking my photo without asking me, but that usually leads to surprise and me being considered uncool. Why? :) I would so much appreciate if we respected each others sovereignty.

  • We both see and salute you Madame Dore!

  • You’re definitely on to something. I feel that as woman we say ‘yes’ more often than we should (it has even been proven that linguistically speaking a woman is more likely to say yes than a man), and learning how to say no can be so important!
    These minimalist white and black outfits fit you so well. I love this editorial, so natural!

  • Ca doit être un truc de Taureau, moi aussi j’ai du mal à dire non et je rougis et parfois je cède. Mais j’apprends à dire non, ça va venir.
    Je te trouve sereine et radieuse (et belle évidemment) sur ces photos.

  • « Because from that ‘no’ comes a confidence that puts people at ease and makes them want to follow your lead. Suddenly, everything flows. »

    This is so, so true.

    Instead of being disappointing or off-putting, a calm and confident « no » allows a refreshing clarity to arise.

  • Garance, dans mes bras!
    Je viens juste de terminer une journée pourrie parce que je n’ai pas su dire non, votre article tombe à pic!

  • inès de peretti 4 juillet 2019, 3:30 / Répondre

    Tellement corse! <3

  • Jorge Alexandre Teixeira 4 juillet 2019, 7:03 / Répondre

    I think the trick to say «no» without saying it,in this kind of situations, is learning how to use your body language, you know what i mean?
    And people from CO ,readers from the Doré community, from 1 to 10, how Beautiful and Tasteful are the photos above ?
    For me? A Solid 10!!! Of course the Model is just Brilliant but…
    *_*

    (PS: Love Sophisticated Minimal with a scandinavian feel!!! It’s totally You, G !!!)

  • Increasingly, the line between advertising and content on this site has become completely blurred and, as a long-time reader, I find it really disappointing.

  • Bonjour,
    Cette campagne est très réusssie et les boots que vous portez sur les photos (répérée également sur leur site) à tomber. Pouvez-vous préciser qui les vend?
    Merci!

  • amanda agostini 7 juillet 2019, 8:19 / Répondre

    that made me remember of a brazilian song wich says: ‘dizer não é dizer sim, saber o que é bom pra mim’. someting like: ‘to say is not to say yes, to know what is good for me’. a must to when it comes to freedom and self-respect.
    it took years for me to learn and i’m still trying since i have demanding enchanting girls.

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    As you begin to respond, your cell buzzes again.

    It’s another message coming in. You glance up at the clock–almost time for the gym. You will have to hit them up later.
    Let’s stop the simulation there. People have a hard time getting what they want in life. People can hardly get themselves to eat a good breakfast.

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